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2025 Facebook Wins

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This end December 2025 finds us reviewing our Facebook page’s top 5 posts for the year – with the highest views of 12, 714 featuring our parents during their 1960 honeymoon trip, We are also grateful to Tony Holt, Michael Hall, and Daniel Koh for contributing to these best seller posts! We also wish to express our gratitude to our followers who viewed and liked our posts, helping in the interaction process. You make this page and our blog come alive as if our memories were just made yesterday! Even though these posts are about the past, we want to wish you all well for our collective future in 2026 and beyond to be especially bright with good health and lucid recollections always!

Bedok Corner aerial view of 1969

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We chanced upon this remarkable aerial photo of the road corner turn linking Upper East Coast Road and Bedok Road (photo of 1969 and sourced by and previously shared by “The Long and Winding Road”, and others, with acknowledgement). Amazingly our Bedok kampong house at 10J Bedok Road can be seen here, just diagonally behind our neighbour Kak Min with the large 2-storey white concrete house she and her large family lived in. (original source is http://www.users.waitrose.com/~g8jan but link is not accessible now) Please note that the red indications are all ours

Our maternal aunt is 86!

She has been the darling of our FB stories postings, garnering many likes as she fashionably posed in the garden of our Bedok kampong house, or when she accompanied her sister, our mother on outings and trips and sometimes dates with our father before they tied the knot! Our mother’s youngest sister, she was just 3 when the war happened, and Singapore was occupied. The sisters also lost both parents at a very young age – yet through it all, developed resilience and never-say-tie in their attitude and outlook in life. All with their respective families now, we wish to congratulate our Ee Ee on her 86 th birthday this week!

10,000 pageviews - all thanks to you!

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We are extremely excited to cross the milestone of 10,000 pageviews of this blog and so appreciative of all the support you have given us! This blog and companion Facebook page shares personal memories and experiences of life in our kampong house in Bedok of old. (FB - Our Bedok kampong house - Singapore) This house was located at Kampong Bedok Laut, just inside Bedok corner, behind the Bedok Rest House (now the Eastwood residences). This wooden plank, zinc-roofed house was originally 614-3 then became 10J Bedok Road, Singapore 16. The entries include stories of living in the kampong between 1954 and 1974, enjoying the nearby beach, family trips, tributes to family and relatives, alongside historical anecdotes about the kampong lifestyle. We are also glad that the National Library Board has included us in their web archival collection as well.  https://eresources.nlb.gov.sg/webarchives/2024-11-11%2002:31:38.000/details/ourbedokkamponghousesg.blogspot.com.html Thanking you an...

A December 1958 memory captured on film

This weekend we remember the first ever wedding that took place at our Bedok kampong house 67 years ago on 14 December 1958. We had previously shared this story with photos in a blog post last year. This time we are blessed to share a video edit of a film made that day on a 16mm movie camera by the brother of our paternal aunt's husband, our uncle Ah Tio. Later in the 90's we managed to salvage what was left of the deteriorated film, transferring it onto a VHS tape, then later converting it into an mp4 clip. This clip showed the groom leaving his River Valley Road home to fetch his bride from our Bedok kampong house and going back to his place. Glimpses of the kampong and the house can be seen, and hope you enjoy this clip..

"Jalan" Siput (The snail pathway)

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This pebble-strewn pathway linking the back of our Bedok kampong house to the garden in front is memorable not just because the pebbles seem to be varying in colours (not so obvious in this colourised black and white 1964 photo) – each morning we would find dozens of giant garden snails or siput all over this part of the garden and not sure why till this day. For young children like us, it was pretty scary when the snail tentacles were actively moving! And our uncle, dad’s cousin, who lives with us would take his dependable penyapu lidi (traditional broom) and metal puntau (made from diagonally cut cooking oil cans) and clear them all. Hey even in those days we practiced sustainability!

Wedding Portraits of 1934, 1940 & 1952

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Interestingly, when we did our housekeeping of our late father’s belongings, we found among the many photos not just those of his and of his own family’s but also photos that he kept that once belonged to his father and older sister that were given by friends. Especially wedding portrait photos. We are indeed blessed to see one from each decade before the 60’s or precisely 1934, 1940 and 1952. Observing the wedding gowns and suits of the bride and groom in themselves was a marvel! We do not personally know these couples and would be glad to connect with anyone who know them as your relatives or ancestors. But so glad we found them! Several of these are already on their way to be archived by the National Library Board Singapore to whom we are grateful.

You've Got A Friend

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Every once in a while, the family would make a trip to visit our maternal second aunt and her family at Jalan Khairuddin at Opera Estate, Singapore. What was interesting about that house was the music selection our cousin enjoyed, and played while we were there. While we (already 12 and 10 years old at this time) had been exposed to music that our father played at our Bedok kampong house with his LPs (33 1/3 rpm) and EPs (45rpm) vinyls, we heard different kinds of songs from her. Bread, America, Sergio Mendes, Carole King – unfamiliar sounds to us at that time.  But on this day in 1973 it was to celebrate our cousin’s 21 st birthday. To us boys it was a loud party! She and her friends were dancing in the living hall which had its main light turned off with some psychedelic lights to create the atmosphere. No rock’n’roll by now and we distinctly heard them play “I Feel The Earth Move” (1971) by Carole King and “Smoke On The Water” (1972) by Deep Purple! But after the party was over...

Road Trips To Malaya

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Going to Peninsular Malaya (not yet Malaysia then) in the 1950’s for a short holiday has always been a favoured option for many of us, and for our father and relatives it was no exception. And because he already has a car, his trusty Morris Minor, and despite the smaller roads, more complicated network and lack of highways as there are today, it was an adventure he would always cherish and talk frequently about. To ensure he gets to his destination was this 1956 Road Directory he purchased and kept all these years. We can tell from his road trips in 1957 and 1958 that he used it well!

Sungei Bedok Then & Now

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On a recent walk to view the former Sungei Bedok, we noticed how much time has changed things. See this 1959 of our aunts enjoying the evening on the bridge (connecting Bedok Laut with Padang Terbakar and Koh Sek Lim estate..and then trying to get the same angle as that photo, is the same river (now canal)

‘Pretty’ Little Baby at 8 months old

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‘Excavated’ from the family home a few months ago, this  Nestlé  Baby Weight Card, tracking the older of us, this writer until he was about 8 months old (March 1962)…  nice to juxtapose the information against an actual studio (some censorship!) photo of me at that same age.. interesting to note the printer was Tien Wah Press (which was just a few years in operation then) March 1962

Dad's cousin's traditional Peranakan Wedding

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Recently while doing housekeeping at our mother’s house, we found this precious large print 1940 photo of our late father's cousin, one of the “Four Beauties” mentioned in an earlier post. This was her wedding day, and she was dressed splendidly in traditional peranakan wedding attire. Sadly the marriage did not last long as she became a widow soon after (no information of the cause of the groom’s death). His will dictated that she was to remain unmarried for an extended period of years before his inheritance to her can materialise. She never remarried, had no children with him and with the eventually realised inheritance purchased two houses, side by side – lived in one (with her younger sis and niece) and rented out the other as her regular source of income. We always enjoyed her company and every year at Chinese New Year, father always made sure he brought the family to visit her (she was about a decade his senior, we call her Ko Ko) and is the 10-year old boy on the left in the...

Bond, James Bond

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Our late father had always been fascinated by the James Bond franchise, from the first movie in 1962. Even when we grew up into teenagers he would still make it a point to bring the family to watch the newest release at places like Shaw Lido. So as a family we watched as different actors took over the lead character and until we moved out of our Bedok kampong house in 1974 when ‘The Man With The Golden Gun’ premiered. So keen was he that when we went to Phuket for a holiday in 1987, he made sure we all went with him to James Bond Island (Phang Nga Bay, an entire day’s journey) to view the filming location of that movie! We are glad that up to the last few months of his life journey with us, he was able to watch the newest Bond#25 ‘No Time To Die’ on Prime Video streaming. Now that same fascination has also rubbed onto us. But ask him who his favourite Bond is and the reply will always be Sean Connery.

A Bedok Beach memory of January 1955

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9 Jan 1955. Barely 2 months after moving into our Bedok kampong house from Kg Soopoo in Kallang, the second generation-ers, ie our father, aunts, relatives and boyfriends (now our uncles) enjoy a sunny day out on the beach outside the house, posing by the felled coconut tree trunks lined along the beachfront. This location was pretty near the Bedok Rest House, we believe, just outside the ‘Sa Chien Lau’ 3-storey building.

Happy 97th Birthday to our Ah-Tio!

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Today, 8 Nov 2025 our late paternal aunt’s husband Ah-Tio celebrates his 97 th  birthday! 97 and what an amazing uncle to us. Among the men in our Bedok kampong home he was truly a leader, establishing himself as a manager at Bata shoes for both the Singapore and Malaysia markets. As a result of his work commitments, we find him based out at Klang, Selangor but coming back often to stay the weekend with us. He was always a good companion to our dad on their Malaya holidays together. We hear our paternal aunt managed to get our strict grandfather to approve of their relationship – however they only tied the knot in 1958, 3 years after our grandfather passed away in 1955.. Our Ah-Tio is a good-natured, generous man with a pleasant disposition who puts everyone who meets him at ease. He also had a quiet strength in him, that even after his beloved wife left him in April 2023, lives on in how he takes each day as it comes – knowing one day they will meet again. Blessed 97 th birthday ...

Our very own "Four Beauties"

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Our very own “ 四美 ” or ‘Simei’ in romanised Chinese (Four Beauties). The four sisters here, children of our grandmother’s eldest sister were cousins to our dad and paternal aunts and visited us often as we did them (there is a fifth sibling, a brother whose deaf mute son came to stay permanently with us). The oldest among them would come even more often, cutting the nails of our grandmother, her aunt. Here they are in 1965 posing together and also with our larger families at the front of our Bedok kampong house with our dad's borrowed camera on self timer. Notice their various dressing styles? 1965 1965

Our father's 1944 education certificate

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We are pleased to share this 1944 Japanese Occupation certificate of education our late father kept. Direct translation of the Japanese from right to left, top to bottom: This is a graduation certificate ( 修了證書 ) issued by 子普通公學校 (likely a primary school) to a student named Tan Kim Suan ( タン キム スワン ). Key Details: Nationality: 支那 (an old term for China, not commonly used today). Age: 13 years old. Graduation Date: 昭和十九年三月四日 (March 4, 1944, in the Showa era). Issuing Authority: 昭南特別市 (Shōnan Tokubetsu-shi), which was the Japanese name for Singapore during the Japanese occupation in World War II. Official Seal: The red stamp at the bottom indicates authenticity. Interpretation: This certificate confirms that Tan Kim Suan (our late father) completed the seventh-year curriculum at this school in Japanese-occupied Singapore ( 昭南特別市 ) during WWII. It reflects the educational system under Japanese rule at that time. He once told us he wanted to keep this to remind him never ...

Our Momok Cubit Story!

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Growing up as kids and living in the kampong does give rise to beliefs in spirits and ‘momoks’ (like our dad once warned us never to cut our nails in the house at night or risk being visited by a ‘momok’). The other thing that is just brought to mind is how sometimes we wake up in the morning and see mysterious blue-black bruises on our arms or legs like pinch marks. Our elders would always say that we got ‘cubit’ (pinched in Malay, pronounced 'chew bit') by a ‘momok’! With our Bedok kampong house surrounded by nearby banana trees, dark undergrowth and the nearby huge old kapok tree, we never argued about it! Does anyone have any similar experiences as we did?

Commemorating our father's birthday

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He would have turned 95 this week, but left us 2 years ago. Looking back at his old photos, one can see vibrancy and vibes, so we’d like to share one photo of our father in 1958 while on holiday in Malacca, Malaya.  He was just 28 then.. Happy heavenly birthday Dad!

House Treasures - from kampong to the archives of the National Library Board

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Our Bedok kampong house indeed had many treasures, especially when our late father felt the need to keep the documents and belongings of his father and elder sister after they both passed on. Even after we moved from the kampong to our HDB flat, he still kept them. Since his death in 2023, we made the conscious effort to go through these documents to see if they still hold any historical or social impact values.  To our delight, the National Library Board (NLB) accepted more than 70 items including letters, receipts, documents, photos and books. Recently we attended the NLB Donor's Appreciation Night, graced by Minister Mrs Josephine Teo. 3 sets of his collection were on display. All these 2024 donations are available for viewing and research at the main library's reference section in Victoria Street. We know that our dad would be so proud, given his expressed wish to have these donated but somehow unable to do so in his lifetime.  Among the artefacts on display was a 1942 Jap...

Mama Blakang our beloved Step Grandmother

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12 October 1960. Our parents were in the midst of their honeymoon in Peninsular Malaysia when they got the shocking news. Beloved Mama Blakang had died within a week of being ill (she caught pneumonia then was felled by a heart attack) and she had attended their wedding 10 days earlier! She was just 53 years of age. Mama Blakang occupied a room in the lower section ‘at the back of the kampong house’ thus her moniker. Yes, she was one of our grandfather’s wives but got along so well with our grandma they lived and did things together even prior to moving to Bedok. Our father showed her a lot of respect referring to her as his step-mother. Abandoning his car in Kuala Lumpur, both returned home by train for the funeral the next day. Mama B was buried at the Hock San Teng Cemetery at the Somapah area (with that area later being developed into the Simei housing estate, her grave was exhumed in 1979 and she is now interred at Yishun Columbarium since). Mama Blakang or Mdm Oh, her real name...